Brand New Mama

Introducing Babes About Town!

2010-01-28T11:49:00.001Z

It's been a busy month. Brand New Mama (in association with Hype Baby) is proud to announce the launch of a brand new blog.

Babes about Town is a city guide and social network serving young families in London and beyond. We find and recommend cool things to do, fun places to hang and stylish places (and products) to shop - and mostly with the little ones in tow.

Babes about Town targets parents with kids in the 0-5 age range but we're open to anybody with kids in their life and everybody with a GSOP (great sense of play).

Please visit the blog to find out more, subscribe via reader, follow us on Facebook and Twitter and of course, get to know the face and family behind Cheekymama and her team.

Winging it

2010-01-11T01:15:00.006Z

We're inching up on birthday month in our household. Yup, mama and both her cheeky boys are Aquarians and hoping to celebrate in some style this February.

If I could make a birthday wishlist for at least two of us (myself and Little Big Cheeks) I would say a little prayer for these Walking Wings by Upspring Baby.

The same team that came up with Milkscreen Moms (screening your breastmilk for alcohol content) have devised another brilliant product. It's a parent harness that's adjustable and detachable, managing to provide balance and confidence for your toddler-in-training without causing you back pain.

One look at the 'Before' and 'After' pictures on their web site and I was pretty much sold on this device. We could certainly do with some 'Wings' on our 10-month-old cherub as he cruises into this stage. Check out a video demo at the Walking Wings site.

Get Cozi this winter

2010-01-03T12:20:00.005Z

Like many mothers, one of my top resolutions for the new year (make that the new decade) is to get more organised. Figuring out how to juggle your growing family's commitments can make you feel like Kali on a bad day.

Now I've found an online tool that looks like it might just change my life. Cozi is an internet-based organiser designed to streamline your routine, making it easier to keep up with your busy family life.

Through its handy system of calendars and schedules Cozi helps you keep track of appointments, groceries, chores and to-do lists. The Cozi site can be accessed by any family member from anywhere with an internet connection - even via mobile phone. You can also sync your Cozi calendar with Microsoft Outlook to stay on top of important dates.

Another great feature is the Family Journal that lets you keep a record of family life with text and photos that you can share via email or even Facebook. Visit Cozi for more tools and tips that could make 2010 the year you finally get closer to being a 'super'-mum.

Smooth as silk

2009-12-21T21:26:00.003Z

Still on a last-minute hunt for that perfect top to see you through the party season? Step (or click) on over to Mamas & Papas where their maternity range currently has some great discounts.

At half the regular price, this luxurious Silk Tie Tunic will skim and drape your figure to flattering form. It has an adjustable tie under the bust and can be jazzed up with jewellery and accessories for a different look each time. We particularly like the tunic paired with these stylish blue tights as pictured.

Visit Mamas & Papas for more festive offers.

V&A muse

2009-12-06T11:12:00.009Z

This week on Hype Baby, we've been extolling the virtues of museum shops as a great place to find unusual gifts. One of my favourite online stores is the V&A museum web shop, a virtual treasure trove of design goodies.

This Deco Bloom Silk Top, inspired by a book plate design for textiles, utters 'hip mama' with its simple wrap/tie style, luxurious colours and gorgeous embroidery. It's the kind of blouse that can adjust to fit your bump, then gracefully skim your frame when baby's out and about.

Or if you're feeling too heavy to invest in new clothing, check out their fashion accessories such as this vintage-look Feather Flower Headband by Ophelie. Handmade using dyed feathers, it's sure to get heads swerving in your direction come party season. Visit the V&A shop for more stylish ideas.

Prints charming

2009-11-22T18:35:00.005Z

Our little Buddha turned 9 months old earlier this week and suddenly it seems like he's hurtling towards his first birthday. One of the things I plan to do (that I never got around to with Cheeky baby number 1) is preserving his teeny tiny handprints in clay.

There are all sorts of specialised services to carry this out, but we like this Hand or Footprint Imprint Tin from MamaToto. All you need to do is open the container, press baby's hand or foot into the soft clay and when you're happy with the imprint, leave it to harden. This makes a great gift for a new parent or (note to hubby) a nice stocking filler for yourself come Christmas. Visit MamaToto for more products geared to brand new mamas.

Babble on to CURE cancer

2009-10-22T13:32:00.001+01:00

We've gabbled about Babble babywear, the line of funky tot suits featuring cute quips and graphics on our sister blog Hype Baby.

Now we want to let you know about a new plan from the generous Babble babywear team. In an effort to help fund research to find a cure for cancer, Babble babywear are donating $1 from the sale of every onesie to CURE Childhood Cancer.

Simply enter coupon code BABBLECCC at checkout and you'll know that even after your bubba grows out of his babygro, your money was put to good use. Check out the collection at Babble babywear.

Pat a cake

2009-10-14T17:08:00.004+01:00

While running errands with my weary babies in West Hampstead, I happened to pass by this delicious looking cake shop and couldn't resist popping in for afternoon tea.

What a treat. We were greeted so warmly by the ladies behind the counter who went to some trouble to squeeze us into what is admittedly a smallish space if you're buggy-ing out. I indulged in a Victoria sponge slice while Mr. Cheeks had a marshmallow-topped cupcake and both were just the right mix of fluffy and sugary. The owner was preparing for a birthday party at the back with a gorgeous spread and I made a note that this would be a great place to hire for events.

Bake-a-boo is definitely a local favourite for mums and little ones, judging by the easy camaraderie between some customers and staff. There's something about the old-school candies, pretty dressing and fresh cakes like your own mama baked that calls you to Bake a Boo. They also cater for sweet tooths who suffer from allergies and intolerances, so there's no excuse not to pile on pounds with the rest of us! Visit the Bake-a-boo web site for a mini-feast for the eyes and other enticements.

Nursing on the Net

2009-09-27T12:08:00.004+01:00

They say it takes a village to raise a child. In this age when many new mothers are separated from our extended families, we turn to the global village that connects online to provide that sense of community and support.

The latest innovation that's come our way is the Virtual Breastfeeding Help Consultation, an online guide that helps new mamas figure out what's meant to be a natural process but can cause many sleepless nights, not to mention sore boobs. All you need is Internet access, a webcam and SKYPE to hook up with a lactation consultant that can provide you with a 'Breastfeeding Care plan' in the comfort of your own home.

So if you're struggling with breastfeeding or just want some refresher tips, check out the Virtual Breastfeeding Help web site to book a slot or browse for advice. Through September you'll get a free Baby Bond Couture nursing cover-up (worth $35) with any consultation or gift certificate.

Stay pure

2009-09-13T15:42:00.004+01:00

The weather's changing and dare we say it, thoughts of that piggy flu and other seasonal nasties are coming to the forefront. If you're a laidback type of gal, your defence system might come down to regular handwashing and perhaps a bottle or two of anti-bacterial spray.

But if you're a bit of a germophobe, you're probably looking for something a little more proactive to tackle those hidden horrors. You should be impressed by the Purespace Sanitizer, a unit for storing and sanitizing personal items. This clever piece of tech kills 99.9999% of all known viruses and harmful bacteria including those linked to flu, heart disease and diabetes.

The Purespace Sanitizer stores up to 6 manual and electric tootbrushes at a time. It also holds baby bottles, pacifiers, nail scissors, jewellery, razors and other similar tools that could carry and spread germs. For more info including where to buy, visit the Purespace homepage.

Bump and groove

2009-08-27T11:35:00.004+01:00

With the Bank Holiday coming up over here, Londoners are either heading away from the Notting Hill Carnival or getting ready to be elbow-deep in the craziness.

If you're insane enough to be pregnant and partying at Europe's biggest street fest, you'll need to be wearing comfy shoes and relaxed clothing. Check out The Maternity Barn for a range of cool, customisable t-shirts that make a statement.

Just pick a style and colour, scroll down the list of slogans like 'Pregnant Not Fat', 'Oops I Did it Again' or 'Funky Mama 09' or even add your own. The most useful message to help you navigate through the crowds is probably 'Hands Off the Bump'.

The Maternity Barn also offers clothing for kids and dads so visit the web site to scope out more styles.

Bags of style

2009-08-22T14:10:00.006+01:00

After the untimely demise of my last baby bag, I had to find a way to comfort myself. Recovery has come quickly in the shape of a red hot number by uber-trendy Stork Sak. In fact you could say I've become unreasonably pleased with myself since I started rocking this bag around town.

The only thing that dents my swagger is taking a trip to the Stork Sak web site where I could spend days lusting after their gorgeous range of totes, rucksacks and unisex bags. My new baby is the red version of the Dori Red Label Messenger featuring multiple wipe-clean pockets, thermo-insulated bottle pockets, adjustable shoulder strap and a fold-out padded changing mat. Even cooler is that it doubles as a laptop bag so should provide years of use. I picked one up at Bebe Bisou boutique in west London's Westfield shopping centre but you can snap one up online at Lullabys kids' store. Visit Stork Sak for more styles and stockists.

Bump and swirl

2009-08-10T11:28:00.004+01:00

We've featured clothing line Nordic Kids several times on our sister blog Hype Baby as their range of cheeky, cheerful labels are the last word in Scandinavian cool. Mamas-to-be should not hesitate to check out the Maternity section for some funky-fly outfits to make you feel bumpalicious.

I adore this Red Peace Print waistband skirt by Plastisock. The combination of lime green strip and groovy red patterns shouldn't work but somehow it does. Even if you've lost your will to party while preggers, this skirt is guaranteed to make you twirl. Visit Nordic Kids and put a little pep in your step.

A timely gift

2009-07-31T11:54:00.006+01:00

Little Big Cheeks is already heading towards his half-year birthday and it seems like forever since I was lugging him around in my belly. I don't exactly miss being pregnant, but I do wish I'd known about My Pregnancy Digi Time Capsule when I was 'with child'.

The fantastic techno keepsake provides a way to capture and store your pregnancy journey, from ultrasound and heartbeat recordings to video messages and photos of your growing bump. On 4GB, you can document the process of decorating your baby's nursery, record baby showers and gift items, even put down timely details about the world leading up to your baby's birth. From gender predictions to old wives' tales, pretty much anything you can think about plus loads of stuff you haven't can be saved on the My Pregnancy Digi Time Capsule.

Available in Signature Silver & Gold or White Leather, this award-winning product makes a truly original gift for any mama-to-be. What's great is that once you pop, you will soon be able to create My Baby Book Digi Time Capsule with equally comprehensive features. Visit the Digi Time Capsule web site for more details and updates.

So fresh and so clean

2009-07-22T10:31:00.005+01:00

Having just come back from our recent trips to Africa and France to a post-heatwave, somewhat gloomy London, I thought I'd maintain a little holiday cheer with a few posts about most useful travel products.

When you're abroad, keeping yourself and more importantly your kids clean and fresh can be a challenge when sometimes even the local water is tainted. You might even resort to using your own spit on a handkerchief (even though you remember how much you hated the feel of your mum's saliva on your face as a child).

Enter MomSpit, the ingeniously named no-rinse cleanser for hands and face, for use on anybody aged two and above. With its witty caption 'Inspired by the original', MomSpit serves to freshen up grubby cheeks and paws, easily removing anything from mud and sand to dried food and drink.

It comes in several flavours, such as the delicious Fig & Green Tea, equally yummy Lemon & White Tea or plain and simple Unscented. When there's no soap or sink available, wash up with just a squirt or two of this magic foam. The residue is slightly sticky at first but fades to a softly moisturising feeling that certainly beats the drying out quality of those alcohol hand rubs.

MomSpit comes in a range of dispensers that are small enough to fit in your hand luggage, baby bag or even your clutch. So put your tongue away and pick up a spit kit from these clever mumpreneurs. Trust me, your kids will thank you for it. Visit the MomSpit web site for more details.

What Dad really wants

2009-06-15T16:37:00.004+01:00

It's not the first time I've bemoaned the lack of decent maternity lingerie on the high street. Even finding a good fitting nursing bra can be a struggle if you wear a popular size. So I'm happy to send any readers in search of solid yet sexy undergarments along to Ma Mere, a site dedicated to designer lingerie from Australia and around the world.

With Papa's day approaching, the canny mompreneur behind the megastore is offering a special promotion to help keep the home fires burning: buy any 2 sets of Hot Milk undies and receive a free pair of Milkman boxers for your partner. Now that's what we call the gifts that keep on giving. Check out Ma Mere web site for more info.

No whine dining

2009-05-28T21:55:00.004+01:00

Breastfeeding is one of motherhood's simplest pleasures. It can also be truly stressful when you're nursing in public and your little one hasn't yet perfected the art of dining al fresco. Cue failed latches, wardrobe malfunctions and misery all round.

Despite having nursed Mr. Cheeks until well into his second year, I've had more than a few unlucky attempts at trying to feed his baby brother while out and about. So I was thrilled to receive a product called the Breastfeeding Butterfly.

Designed by two UK mamas, this is a nursing cover with a twist: instead of a big stiff apron that screams 'look at me, I'm breastfeeding', you get a chic swathe of fabric that you simply tie across your body like a sash. Secure two knots at shoulder and hip, slide your very hungry caterpillar under the 'Butterfly' and it's bombs (or boobs) away.

In theory, that is. I must confess my first outing with the Breastfeeding Butterfly wasn't quite as smooth as the instructional diagram (cloth tied wrong, baby too unsettled).

So I practised at home until we both got comfortable and now the Breastfeeding Butterfly has become one of my baby bag staples. Aside from its portability (each Butterfly comes in its own dinky carry pouch), what I love about this product is that it's light and airy so you don't feel like your little one is suffocating or overheating. Mine comes in discreet black with pretty embroidery but you can snap up Butterflies in a range of gorgeous prints. Visit Faye and Lou's web site for more info.

Pudding in a pouch

2009-05-14T15:30:00.005+01:00

One of my baby essentials since having Little Big Cheeks is my Rhubarb & Custard pouch sling. Even though my chunky Bhudda is too heavy for toting around town all day, my sling certainly makes things easier on my arms and back. Plus I always get compliments on its pretty pistachio print.

Cape Town company Rhubarb & Custard is run by a mother of three who's passionate about babywearing. I met Emilia at the Baby Show in October while trying out different carriers over my bump, and what really sold me on her product was not just how easy it was to wear but her enthusiasm and warmth. Each sling not only comes in a wide range of funky fabrics, but also features her contact details for direct feedback or support.

Rhubarb & Custard pouch slings are machine washable, made with 100% cotton lining and are suitable from birth to 18 kgs. Visit the web site for details on these and other products.

Charmed, I'm sure

2009-05-07T18:15:00.005+01:00

With Mama's Day just around the corner on the other side of the pond, it's a good time to scope out pressies for new mothers. We're enchanted by the jewellery at Charming Mommy, a Canadian outfit offering tasteful, handmade pieces featuring silver, gold and semi-precious stones. Each bracelet can be personalised with the name of your child, grandchild, mother or simply an inspiring word like 'Love', 'Courage' or 'Survivor'. Designed by the mother of two children with autism, ten percent of proceeds from sales go towards Autism Charities. Check out Charming Mommy's web site for more gift ideas.

Mother's help

2009-04-17T15:38:00.003+01:00

Every mother dreads it: the non-stop crying, fussy and gassy phase that's known as colic and can make your bundle of joy turn you into a bag of nerves. Nobody can explain what causes colic exactly but when it happens the first thing you'll want to know is how to make it stop.

The First Years Colic Massage Pad, by Learning Curve, is a natural solution that some parents describe as a godsend. This battery-operated pad uses a circular motion, white noise and soothing vibrations to keep baby on an even keel. Spread it across your lap or over your shoulder and lay your little one on his tummy to help ease and maybe even release some of that gassy pain. The First Years Colic Massage Pad is soft, easily washable, portable and available at Babies R Us. More info at the Learning Curve web site.

Snappy nappy changer

2009-03-28T20:07:00.004Z

Even though I've already got a deluxe changing bag for my Little Big Cheeks along with a chic and cheerful changing wallet from Mothercare, I was more than happy to receive yet another package on which to park baby's bottom when he needs refreshing.

Gund Baby's Diaper Tote is a fab little bag that folds out to one of the largest and most comfy changing mats I've seen. It features four inner compartments and a back pocket providing plenty of space to carry nappies, wipes, cream and anything else to keep that teenie tushy happy.

The tote is available in pink or blue and has a super-cute elephant, frog and giraffe theme. I'm already imagining carrying it around for summer picnics, fairs or festivals when it's too hot and bothersome to manage a larger hold-all. Our Gund Baby Diaper Tote was snapped up at Wilton and Noble gift store but you can find it at various online retailers including Amazon.

Babe in a basket

2009-03-01T11:59:00.006Z

Brand New Mama is happy to share that we have a new addition to our family. Little Big Cheeks, as he shall be known on this blog, will be two weeks old tomorrow and is already adapting to Cheeky family life.

One of our favourite gifts for the baby has been a gently-used Moses Basket, originally from ultra-chic store Mamas & Papas. LBC uses it as his day bed in our living room and always has at least two or three hour blocks of sound sleep, even with his toddler brother clattering around him.

All Mamas & Papas Moses Baskets can be coordinated with their stylish interiors collection and each includes a sturdy maize basket with adjustable hood, machine washable bedding and can be fixed on a selection of rocking or stationary stands. The store is currently on sale so visit the web site now to take advantage of their special offers.

Black by popular demand

2009-02-09T12:21:00.004Z

Even in these credit crunchy times, any woman who has dedicated her body to creating life deserves to treat herself to a little luxury. Designer It bags may no longer be de rigeur, but that doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your 'yummy mummy' arm candy for a dumpy looking baby changing bag.

We're currently lusting after this sleek OiOi Carry All in black patent with leopard print lining. Not only does it scream chic mama but it comes with all the trimmings: padded changing mat, insulated bottle holder, wipes case, messy bag and adjustable strap for wearing over your shoulder or hanging from your pushchair. Get it for a steal at Kiddicare or visit the OiOi web site for more styles.

Yummy mummy

2009-02-02T15:02:00.006Z

In the hectic days after the birth, every new mother needs a helping hand - especially in the kitchen. When you spend what seems like every waking minute with baby attached to breast or bottle, it can be easy to forget or hard to find a moment to feed yourself.

What you really need is a New Mummy's Yummy Gourmet Box, a fabulous gift idea from Babes with Babies. This consists of 20 hand-made, healthy frozen meals by award-winning company Chef on Board, delivered to your door. The gift box contains two helpings of such tasty dishes as Beef Lasagne, Coq Au Vin, Moussaka and Luxury Fish Pie and contain no artificial additives or strong spices to affect the little one if you're breastfeeding.

Chef on Board can also cater to any special dietary requirements including fare specifically for vegetarians. Get a gourmet box for one of your expecting buddies or just treat yourself by special order from the Babes with Babies web site.

Baby blogging

2009-01-25T14:04:00.003Z

If you're anything like myself, you probably spent maybe a couple of months of your child's life obsessively recording every little dribble and gurgle. But as time went by, you soon gave up on your baby record book and before you knew it the first year went by in a blur.

Luckily for the cyber-generation, there are a range of web sites out there aimed at people like us who need a cute, plain and hassle-free way of keeping track of our baby's milestones. Keepaboo is a fab online record book that allows you to collect and preserve those treasured memories from the first tooth, to weight and growth charts to those early attempts at speech. You can add pictures and favourite quotes, share with family and friends via email or even on Facebook and in the near future you'll be able to print off a hard copy of your book for posterity. Best of all, it's completely free! Check out Keepaboo to view a sample book and get some inspiration.

Stroll baby stroll

2009-01-14T21:13:00.004Z

After all that Xmas browsing for the hubby, I'm still in gadget-finding mode. I just stumbled across this fab piece of tech made specifically with new parents in mind.

The Strollometer is basically a pedometer for the pushy set. It's the world's first wireless speedometre designed to fit any pushchair and aimed at encouraging you to make the most out of your daily stroll.

This mini computer calculates everything from your daily mileage and average trip speed to the temperature outside--so you can keep baby perfectly cool or warm while you work up a sweat. The Strollometer makes a great gift and is the perfect accessory for your strollercize workout. Visit the website for a list of online retail partners based in US and Canada (many will ship worldwide).

Soothe a fever

2009-01-06T18:47:00.005Z

Tis the season of coughs and sniffles and one of the most worrying times for any Brand New Mama. If you've got an infant who's under the weather, you'll want to be certain he has a fever before reaching for the Calpol. But how to get your poorly little wriggler to stay still long enough for that oral, armpit or rectal thermometer to get a precise reading?

Grab yourself one of these nifty Digital Soother Thermometers from Bruin. It looks and feels like a regular pacifier but will glow red when a fever is detected. It can be used in both celsius and fahrenheit and has a memory feature to recall previous readings. Soothing for baby and simple enough for the most sleep-deprived mum, these Bruin Digital Soother Thermometer can be found at Babies R Us stores or online.

Bottoms up!

2008-12-29T16:56:00.006Z

When it comes to your favourite tipple, the jury's still out on whether light drinking or total abstinence should be de rigeur during pregnancy. If you've decided to play it safe but don't want to feel like the party pooper over New Year's, you can still enjoy a glass of bubbly with some sparkling (non-alcoholic) cider or whip up your own concoction.

Fizzy water with apple or cranberry juice or a splash of ginger ale for a little kick work well. For more inspiration, scope out Preggatinis. This book by professional mixologist Natalie Bovis-Nelsen a.k.a. The Liquid Muse is crammed with baby-friendly cocktail recipes for every stage of pregnancy. So skip the Cosmo for a Cosmom and toast in the New Year without guilt or fear. For a taste of The Liquid Muse check out her blog or get the book at Amazon.

Xmas cracker

2008-12-23T11:04:00.002Z

Still after that perfect party dress? If you've had no joy in high street stores, look no further than this hot lacy number from online store Babes with Babies. Available in ultra-trendy dark chocolate or black lace over an oyster lining, it features a flattering empire line waist and cross-over neckline so you can work that new mama cleavage. This style of neckline is also useful for breastfeeding as you can simply slide the fabric across and let baby at 'em (maybe drape a scarf across if you're feeling modest). Designed by Tiffany Rose, this dress will keep you blooming throughout pregnancy, the festive season and beyond those bumpy days ahead. Order online at the Babes with Babies web site.

Brownies for baby mamas

2008-12-07T12:37:00.004Z

Gushing phone calls, texts, cards and even flowers are all very well when you've had a baby. But after going through the resplendent drama of childbearing and birth, every Brand New Mama deserves something a little more indulgent. That's why the canny folk at Silver Bee Bakery have come up with a range of packaged goodies for mum and child.

With my second baby's arrival imminent in the next couple of months (ah, the 'secret' is out!), what I'm craving is a New Mummy's Pampering Kit complete with balms for lips, face and feet, organic soap and a sweet Anne-Claire Petit knitted rattle for the bubba. And of course the star attraction -- a huge tin of Chocolissimo brownies to keep my energy and spirits up during those 24 hour feeding-changing-feeding sessions.

I had a chance to sample one of these brownies at the London Baby Show and I have to say that they are hands down the most gooey, chocolatey, tongue-twistingly sensational brownies I've tasted in a long time. Give someone you know a new mama/papa/baby or Xmas gift to remember with an order from Silver Bee Bakery.

So charming

2008-11-17T21:52:00.004Z

In our search for the perfect Xmas treasure for all the new and expectant mamas we know (it truly is baby season), we were tickled pink and blue to find out about the Moms Name Charm Necklace from Bliss Living. Each custom-made necklace includes a sterling silver charm that can be inscribed with your baby's name and date of birth, connected to the chain by a Swarovski crystal birthstone.

In case you don't know your child's birth stone, there's a handy chart on the web site to explain and you can add additional charms to each chain to reflect your growing family. If you want to spread some Moms Charm before Christmas order by December 5 and use the coupon code FREESHIP for free shipping on all orders over $99 (by Nov 20).

Water Sport

2008-11-02T12:25:00.002Z

One of the stands that caught our eye at October's Baby Show in London was selling something called the Baby Sport Water Bottle Teat Adaptor. The name is pretty self-explanatory but we'll break it down anyway: basically it's a little gadget that attaches a standard baby teat to any 'baby-friendly' water bottle. It creates a watertight seal and saves you having to boil and cool your baby's water before you head out the door.

The product is 100% BPA free and will work with almost any brand of low mineral water bottle suitable for babies from 5/6 months e.g. Spa, Aqua Pura, Evian, Highland Spring and Volvic. The BabySport adaptor is ideal for travelling abroad and will help keep your baby safely hydrated in countries where the tap water is dodgy. Find out more at the Baby Sport web site.

MeloBaby mats make mellow mamas

2008-11-02T11:47:00.004Z

One of the most useful purchases I've made since becoming a mother is this Fold & Go Mat from The First Years, a fold-up changing wallet that fits into any medium-sized bag and has space for nappies and wipes case. At last month's Baby Show in London, I was thrilled to come across the MeloBaby nappy/changing wallet which combines the practicality of my current changing mat with the sleek good looks of a clutch bag.

Available in two colours, MeloNoir and MeloChoc, the MeloBaby features up to 4 pockets for wipes, nappies and creams and then folds out to a full-size changing mat in soft fleece to soothe your baby's tush. Even if you're intent on splashing out on that designer changing bag that costs and carries the earth, a portable mini-mat like the MeloBaby is definitely a worthwhile investment. Snap one up at the MeloBaby web site.

It's a wrap

2008-10-23T14:34:00.002+01:00

Like most multi-tasking mamas, finding a fashionable product with multiple uses gives us an almighty buzz. So we were positively electrified to come across the M Coat, a Canadian Spirit designed coat that converts from maternity coat to new mummy cover-up and finally to a stylish jacket for when you're back to regular size.

Insulated with 100 percent Canadian down and featuring a detachable faux fur trim hood, what makes this coat so clever is the removable front panel that can be zipped into multiple positions for pregnancy or for toting your bubba in a front-carrier. The panel has an adjustable drawstring waist to allow your blooming belly to expand or to help pull your baby closer when used for babywearing. And when you're done with the infant stage, you can whip the panel off to reveal the sleeker version of yourself stylishly wrapped in what looks like a brand new winter coat! Find out more at the M Coat web site.

Go Skip Hop

2008-09-15T10:36:00.002+01:00

It's not always the first item on your mind when you're busy scouting for pushchairs or prams, nursery items and baby clothes, but a sturdy diaper bag is one of the most essential purchases for any new parent. Being a mama essentially means becoming a bag lady as you have to tote an unimaginable amount of baby gear around whenever you step out.

US-based Skip Hop is one of the most popular brands for the new breed of baby changing bags that couple style with functionality. The Skip Hop Dash is a messenger-style bag that you can easily sling over the handle bars of your stroller or attach with its unique strap and fastening system. The bag contains eleven deep pockets to provide space for everything from nappies and wipes to bottles and snacks. It comes in a range of colours like our fave stripe design that has unisex appeal or even camouflage print for the more macho papa. Check out the Skip Hop web site for a list of stockists worldwide.

In the frame

2008-08-27T13:57:00.002+01:00

One of the most exciting moments of your pregnancy is when you get to see your little one on the small screen for the first time. Whether or not you've had previous scans in early pregnancy, it's usually the 12-week ultrasound scan when you get a close-up of your womb tenant waving, kicking and even sucking her thumb that hits you with that 'I'm going to be a mummy' feeling in full force. Most ultrasound units will offer parents-to-be a grainy photo of their little bean but as the months progress, the flimsy print-out is likely to get tattered unless you find somewhere safe to store it.

Get yourself a Baby Scan Photo Frame from The Gift Experience. This hinged frame features one side to slot your scan photo and another side where you can write details like the parents' names, date and the number of weeks of gestation. The Baby Scan Photo Frame comes in a creamy resin finish and is dotted with cute little stars and makes an ideal gift for newly announced mamas and papas. Available at The Gift Experience and good photo stores.

The 6Way LBD

2008-07-24T10:20:00.004+01:00

It's a strange phenomenon how your wardrobe seems to shrink as your body expands. If you're struggling to find comfy, stylish clothes to fit your pregnant form, Glow Maternity (by way of the Fertile Mind range of maternity and nursing wear) are offering an inventive solution: the 6 Way maternity dress. That's right, one dress, six different outfits.

This wash and wear garment easily transforms from a simple skirt to a baby doll dress that's ideal for hanging out at the beach, an ultra-hip one-shoulder number perfect for date night (hopefully with your baby daddy!), a halterneck evening gown, a sexy crossover style and a dress with cap sleeves for a little more coverage. Available in sizes S to XL the dress is designed to elegantly skim your form rather than clinging to lumps and bumps. And in the grip of credit crunch panic, it's a snip at only 80 quid. Could this be the ultimate LBD? You do the maths. Find the 6 Way maternity dress at Glow Maternity.

Out, dark spots!

2008-07-14T21:40:00.001+01:00

One of the many strange wonders of pregnancy is just what happens to your skin. The cocktail of hormones can leave you blooming or turn your epidermis into an acne-ridden, fuzzy, streaky hide that unfortunately takes longer than nine months to shed.

Chloasma, ranging from dark patches to the so-called ‘mask of pregnancy’ caused by increasingly sun-sensitive skin can be especially distressing. Luckily Belli cosmetics have a dermatologically-approved Anti-Chloasma Facial Sunscreen SPF 25 sun cream and moisturiser that contains titanium dioxide and zinc oxide to help block those pesky UVA/UVB rays without causing any harm to your unborn. So before you stride out into the summer heat, grab yourself a wide-brimmed hat, some oversized shades and a tube of Belli Anti-Chloasma available at good beauty stores or from the Belli web site.

Track your Cycle

2008-06-26T23:10:00.001+01:00

If you’re trying for a baby or simply looking for a little help with natural family planning, the Institute for Reproductive Health at Georgetown University have an innovative and might we add, stylish solution. CycleBeads are a string of 32 colour-coded beads, each representing a day of your menstrual cycle. You simply move the black ring over each bead to count through from the first day of your period to help you track your most fertile days.

In studies, CycleBeads have been shown to be more than 95% effective when used correctly. Brand New Mamas like that CycleBeads give women another option in the often dicey area of birth control, they come with no side effects and they look pretty cute with this summer’s tribal-global fashion. Find out more at the CycleBeads web site.

Glamour, Amoralia style

2008-05-30T21:52:00.004+01:00

Given the current UK climate, it may sound ironic talking about your summer wardrobe. But it’s never a bad time to celebrate lingerie that’s designed for pregnant women who are hot in every sense. Leading brand Amoralia is already a favourite of celebs like Rachel Weisz and model Laura Bailey.

Now Amoralia has launched two summer collections: Embrace features a strapless maternity bra in breathable microfibre and matching briefs or hipster thongs cut to hug you right below the bump. You can also try their nursing bra which has a patented magnetic clip to allow discrete feeding. The Canelle collection includes a multi-way bra with detachable straps that can be worn under cross-over, halter-neck or strapless tops and dresses.

Elsewhere in the Amoralia range we’re particularly keen on the ultra-sexy Nougatine set with its award-winning nursing bra and French cut knickers with bows. Slip into Amoralia and you’ll have no excuse not to step out looking and feeling mamalicious, whatever the weather has in store.

Knees Up

2008-04-30T22:32:00.001+01:00

One of the many things nobody warns you before you become a mother is exactly how much time you’ll spend prone at your little emperor’s feet, attending to his every whim. Take bath time, for instance. The amount of hours spent bending over to wash baby inevitably leads to not only a sore back but calloused knees and elbows.

That’s why smart mums go for the Aquatopia Bath Time Kneeler. This genius little gizmo is a cushioned resting pad with a non-slip rubber bottom that sticks to the bath with suction cups. It also features side pockets where you can place baby’s bath essentials within easy reach. Do your knees a favour and order a Bath Time Kneeler from The Baby Catalogue.

We dream of genii

2008-04-13T19:47:00.002+01:00

Pregnancy and sleep go together like, well, new babies and sleep. It’s hard enough freeing your mind of the thousand and one thoughts that run through your head as soon as you find out you’re knocked up. But finding a comfortable position as your bump grows proves to be a Herculean task.

What you need is a good maternity pillow like the DreamGenii Pregnancy Pillow. Winner of the Practical Parenting Pregnancy Product of the Year 2007, this pillow manages to support your bump, back and knees without taking up all the space in the bed and enraging your partner. It allows you to lie on your left side encouraging maximum blood flow to your baby and stops you rolling onto your back (not the best position for baby). Even better, after the birth you can use the pillow as a comfy nursing cushion. UK customers can pick one up at Mothercare; for a list of other stockists visit the DreamGenii site.

Yummy Tummy

2008-04-06T22:21:00.004+01:00

Watching your bump grow is one of the joys of pregnancy. But watching the stretch marks that sometimes grow along with your belly can deflate your new mama pride. If you’re itemising goodies for an upcoming baby shower, don’t forget to put a little something for mama on your wish list.

We recommend the Tummy Honey 3-Piece Gift Set which includes not only prevention butter and stick but also a fading cream to help zap those pesky marks. All Tummy Honey products include a powerful cocktail of skin-loving ingredients like Cocoa Butter, Shea Butter, Emu Oil, Vegolatum (plant-based alternative to petrolatum), Aloe Vera and Vitamin E. Go on, give your tummy a little honey. Available online at Due Maternity and selected retailers.

Hot Milk does a body good

2008-04-01T12:41:00.003+01:00

There’s something about the phrase maternity bra that calls up images of chunky straps and boulder cups of the ilk that might be sported by head matron in Carry on Nurse. Two words: Not Sexy.

But a bold New Zealand company, Hot Milk, is raising temperatures worldwide with its provocative and mama-affirming line of maternity lingerie that you would actually want your partner to see (and touch and tease…).

With names like Whisper Sweet Wickedness and Baby Doll Delicious, this exquisite range of maternity and nursing bras, panties, camisoles and nightwear screams in-your-face decadence and has courted more than its fair share of controversy (some outraged mothers who received Hot Milk catalogues cried ‘soft porn’).

If you’re the type of puritan who’s offended by the sight of bumpalicious babes celebrating their earth mama sensuality, then look away. But if you’re ready to throw out that greying, saggy upholstery for under garments that will help you reclaim your inner sex goddess (no matter what stage of new motherhood you’re at) then you definitely need a taste of Hot Milk. We could drink it by the gallon.

Citizens of maternity

2008-03-18T14:12:00.001Z

If like me you’re one of those women who live, sleep and will be buried in their jeans, then even the most blooming belly is unlikely to separate you from your denims. Maternity jeans that expand with your form are easy to find these days and trendy mamas will be thrilled to know that ultra hip brand Citizens of Humanity now does some fab, dare we say sexy, maternity jeans. So pack away those hipsters and slip into these Kelly bootcut jeans featuring a standard stretchy waistband to accommodate your growing bump. Grab a pair or more at Due Maternity online store.

Mother's charm

2008-02-27T21:59:00.001Z

In case you hadn’t noticed, it’s Mother’s Day this Sunday. Aside from your baby’s birthday, this is the most exciting date on the calendar for Brand New Mamas as you celebrate the gift of life and congratulate yourself on your pain threshold. Why not step out in style and reward yourself (or get daddy to reward you) with a piece of wrist candy that represents your pride and joy.

Louloubee offers this gorgeous Birthstone Bracelet with a sweet daisy clasp featuring a mother and baby charm and your child’s birthstone. The bracelet can be customised to order and you can add more birthstones for other kids or god children. You might not get this in time for Mother’s Day but it’s never too late to treat yourself. Order at Louloubee online.

The Butterfly effect

2008-02-07T22:30:00.000Z

We’re itching to throw a baby shower just so we can send out some announcements using these exquisite Butterfly in Flight baby favours. Designed from handmade paper by innovative stationers Botanical Paperworks, the card feature butterflies with their wings folded outwards as if they’re about to take flight. And in keeping with the metamorphosis theme, recipients get instructions to remove the butterfly, plant in a pot of soil and watch their invitation transform into a gorgeous bloom of wildflowers. Simply magical. Order at Botanical Paperworks online.

Love yourself

2008-02-02T23:09:00.000Z

As Cupid tunes up his bow and gets ready to make mischief, it’s time to stop mooning around and focus on what you really want for Valentine’s. If you (or lover boy) are stuck for ideas, may we suggest a spa voucher as the gift that keeps on giving? After being literally consumed by your baby for months on end, you deserve some one-on-one pampering. Grayshott Spa is just one of many top UK spas that offer personalised treatments for new mothers and expectant mums (not suitable for the first 12 weeks or after week 36 of pregnancy). Their maternity packages range from a 70 minute session to 7 nights of pure unbridled luxury for you and a partner…with a price tag to match. Still, you’re worth it. Reservations can be made online at Grayshott Spa.

Easy queasy

2008-01-27T13:06:00.000Z

Probably one of the worst aspects of early pregnancy for many women is morning sickness – that unsettling feeling ranging from mild nausea to uncontrollable vomiting. Although I was one of the lucky few who didn’t suffer badly, the mere sight of certain foods made me gag and I soon realised that ‘morning sickness’ can actually last 24 hours.

Common advice includes drinking ginger ale, sucking on ginger lollipops or sipping on ginger herbal tea (apparently ginger helps alleviate symptoms). But if you’re not down with the flavour and you still want a natural remedy, you could opt for a sniff of QueaseEASE. The handy purse-sized tube contains a unique blend of essential oils (peppermint, lavender, spearmint and yes, ginger) designed to cure all sorts of nausea including morning sickness and motion sickness. There are no side effects and you can use it as often as you like. Simply remove the cap, inhale deeply for a few breaths and let the oils work their magic. Available via the web site Soothing Scents.

Bag it up

2008-01-16T19:24:00.000Z

Maybe you’re cutting down on sweet treats for the New Year. That’s no reason you can’t spoil yourself with a little arm candy. Put a little ooh la la in your stride with one of these oh-so-chic bags in Parisian wallpaper design by French designer duo Murval.

Durable, roomy and constructed out of a wipe-clean nylon fabric, these bags seem to have been designed with mamas in mind. The kind folks at Give Simple are featuring a Murval sale through January 16 with up to 30 percent discounts. So you can afford to buy a matching set including travel bag, vanity case and toiletry bag. Life has never been so hectic but thanks to Murval the illusion of organisation is within your reach.

Family planning

2008-01-09T15:31:00.000Z

One of the more common New Year’s resolutions that the average person makes is to get more organised. It’s an especially tough challenge for new mothers who are juggling the demands of night waking, non-stop feeding and 24-hour diaper duty. Luckily you can find plenty of support online, such as Organised Mum, a web site totally devoted to helping you take charge of your family life.

We recommend their Baby’s First Year Calendar that not only allows you to plan your daily schedule but also lets you record those precious first year milestones and gives monthly tips on what to expect. It includes a pocket to store paperwork, photos and other mementos, and even leaves space to jot down the year’s most newsworthy stories. Order one online at the Organised Mum web site.

Swap shop

2008-01-03T11:48:00.000Z

Welcome to 2008. With every New Year come new resolutions and the promise of a fresh start. What better way to begin than to clear out all the outgrown baby clothes and gear that's already starting to clutter up your nursery and attic?

Swap Baby Goods is a fantastic and free site that allows parents to register their baby products to buy, sell or exchange. It’s a great place to scout for gently used or second-hand items and also to pass on those Xmas gifts that weren’t necessarily what you were hoping for. Swap Baby Goods features everything from Moses baskets and baby slings to bedding, clothes and books. Brand New Mama cautions customers against buying items like car seats and pushchairs second-hand in case they don’t meet safety standards. Visit Swap Baby Goods to find sites for customers in the US, Canada or the UK.

Back to black

2007-12-19T20:42:00.000Z

When it comes to choosing evening wear, it's usually best to stick with a classic look. Especially if you're rounder than Santa this year. This twist strap diamante black vest from Fun Mum will take you through the party season looking on trend and feeling super glam. It's cut to flatter expecting mums by gently skimming over your tummy and gathering underneath for a flattering silhouette. Wear it with these elasticated black wide leg trousers and you'll be ready to bump and groove all night long.

Peace on earth - Special Offer

2007-12-12T22:23:00.000Z

No matter how stressful the early months can seem, becoming responsible for a new life creates a feeling of inner joy and gratitude that’s like nothing else. Now you can wear your emotions proudly on your chest with one of these shirts from PeaceLoveMom. Created by three mums whose motto is ‘a celebration of motherhood,’ the PeaceLoveMom range blends a free-rolling hippy sensibility with a little rock and roll edge.

Oprah Winfrey, Tia Carrera and Cindy Crawford are just a few of the famous fans of their t-shirts and tanks featuring simple, feel-good messages against striking, vintage-look logos. Brand New Mama has partnered with PeaceLoveMom to spread a little peace, love and fabulous-ness this holiday season. They are offering 10 percent off all items including clothing and accessories through January 15th when you enter the code NEWMAMA at checkout. Only available at the PeaceLoveMom web site.

Just done it

2007-12-10T22:49:00.001Z

Even though we're not currently in the family way, Brand New Mama can't get enough of sassy maternity tops with cute sayings. Our new favourite is the Ruby Fay Done It Thermal long-sleeved t-shirt. It features an upside down Nike style swoosh logo along with the phrase 'Done It' that sits neatly over your bump. Enough said. The shirt comes in flattering chocolate brown or navy and is available at The Cocoa Monkey.

Butter up

2007-12-05T22:26:00.000Z

It may not be top of your Christmas list but any new mama who's already cracking up from breastfeeding will be beyond thankful to find a jar of Nipple Butter in her stocking. One of the bestselling products from top store Earth Mama Angel Baby, this nipple salve is the first organic, all-natural, plant-based balm that's lanolin-free (so no hint of pesky pesticides). The cream is made from shea butter, cocoa butter, mango butter and healing calendula. And if that sounds pretty edible that's because it's safe for baby to eat so there's no need to wash it off between feeds. Yummy mummy.

Belly music

2007-11-18T13:24:00.000Z

If you’re hunting for Xmas treasures for an impending baby mama, check out the web site Belly Gifts that caters for parents at every stage of pregnancy and beyond. We’re intrigued by one of their top sellers, BabyChimes, a sterling silver pendant hanging from a 34 inch silver chain. Throughout your pregnancy the chime moves across your belly playing sounds to soothe your growing baby. After birth, she’ll associate the sounds of the BabyChime with the comfort and security of being in the womb. All BabyChimes are handmade and come in several designs including this popular Big Heart shape. View this and other great ideas at Belly Gifts.

Sleeping beauties

2007-11-07T16:12:00.000Z

If you ask any brand new mama what’s on her Xmas wish list, “more sleep” would probably take the top spot. Since you can’t control her baby’s night waking you could offer your mum chum that much-needed nap by taking care of her baby for a couple of hours. Or you could simply pass on that well-worn maxim ‘sleep when the baby sleeps’ and before she can roll her eyes, give her these gorgeous silk masks from Babes with Babies to persuade her. The floral embroidered sleep masks not only block out light but fill the air with a soothing scent to help you nod off. In case dad gets jealous, there’s also a plain black Man Mask to help him rest his weary eyes. Just don’t call him Zorro.

Piece of cake

2007-10-18T19:38:00.000+01:00

Stuck for a gift idea for a brand new mama? Ever thought of baking a diaper cake? These cloth concoctions give a whole new meaning to the concept of ‘edible undies’. Diaper Cakewalk is just one of many companies who are cornering the baby shower market with their ornate cake style designs made entirely out of what we in the UK call ‘nappies’. You can choose their pound cakes, diaper-only cakes, boy or girl cakes, or even a diaper castle. Diaper cakes are not only a great conversation piece but they’re just as eye-catching and certainly a lot more practical than a bunch of flowers. Tuck in at Diaper Cakewalk.

Puffed up

2007-10-09T11:10:00.001+01:00

There is nothing warmer or more weather-resistant than the puffa jacket which once again the fash pack has declared ‘hot’ for the cold season. But when the average skinny Minnie can resemble the Michelin man in a padded coat, what hope is there for someone who on a good day looks like she’s strapped a VW to her tummy? Well we’ve scoured the web and found this ultra-funky, sleek and mummy-friendly puffer coat by Motherhood Maternity. Available in black, sizes S-XL, this quilted three-quarter length coat comes with a detachable fake fur-trim hood and room to grow. Grab one while they last at Motherhood online store.

Here's baby!

2007-09-28T21:41:00.000+01:00

If you're a super-organised mama, you'll have probably dropped off handprinted cards informing your nearest and dearest about the birth of your little one as soon as you eased off the delivery bed. But if you're like most of us, it will probably take you days (okay, weeks) after birth to get around to taking blurry pics of your baby that you'll email to whoever your nappy-headed brain can remember in your contacts list.

Luckily the internet provides a range of options for time-pressed parents such as Baby Momento, a company that creates custom-designed online birth announcements using personal photos. Rather than having to spend hours attaching photos to various emails, you simply choose a design online, submit a form, email your photos to the Baby Momento team and let them take care of the rest. And since it's an online announcement, doting grandparents and aunts and uncles can also share their happy news without fuss - simply by pointing friends and family to the e-card address. For more info, see the Baby Momento web site.

Clever Clippers

2007-09-21T17:33:00.000+01:00

One of the first tests a new mama has to face is learning to cut her newborn’s fingernails without causing untold physical or emotional trauma. Baby nails are so soft and their fingers so tiny that it only takes a slip to accidentally nick the skin. Thus many mothers approach baby manicures with almost as much anxiety as if they were performing surgery on their infant. The best advice doctors give is to trim babies’ nails while they’re asleep but if your child is lying in a darkened room it’s almost impossible to see what you’re doing.

The Baby Light & Clip was invented by a mother to take the stress out of baby manicures. The battery-operated nail clipper comes with four safety features: a lighted nail clipper that illuminates under the baby’s nail to show where to safely trim; safety guards to stop you cutting baby’s skin; a tray to catch clippings before they fall into baby’s bedding; and increased visibility of sharp edges that could scratch baby’s skin. It also features a comfort control handle for easy working and a compact storage case. This multiple award-winning product is loved by mums and is available at the website.

Ring leader

2007-09-10T16:36:00.000+01:00

I came across an ad for Susan Astaire’s Baby Ring© in a magazine and couldn’t resist checking out the web site. Each handmade gold or silver band features a pink or blue diamond surrounded by white diamonds to signify the arrival of a girl or boy. For added effect (and more spend), you can have the child’s name engraved on the inside of the band.

It might seem a bit strange to get a diamond ring dedicated not to hubby but to baby, but the trend for buying mothers bling to celebrate births seems to be growing thanks in part to the Hollywood baby boom. We’re not ones to turn our noses up at a fine piece of sparkle on whatever occasion but doesn’t it just add to the pressure for ordinary mortals to keep up with the Mr & Mrs Jones (or the Cruises or Jolie-Pitts)? Given the current divorce rates, maybe baby rings are set to take over from engagement rings as the ultimate symbol of lifetime commitment. For more info, visit the web site.

Glow to Bed

2007-09-06T00:34:00.000+01:00

Night sweats, leaky boobs and bed head. In the days and weeks after giving birth, you’ve never been in more need of beauty sleep and yet sleep proves disturbingly elusive. So here’s something to perk you up: these ’Cheeky’ PJs from Glow Maternity. Made from 100% cotton, this pyjama set can be worn through bump and beyond, thanks to the adjustable drawstring waist. There’s a discreet side opening in the top so you can breastfeed without having to hide out in the bedroom when guests pop by to ogle baby. The sleek yet comfy stripy tank and sweats combo makes ideal loungewear and yet is smart enough to make you look like you've had time to shower. Available in sizes 8 to 20 at Glow Maternity.

Mod mamas

2007-08-30T14:05:00.000+01:00

Every modern mama needs a cute carry-all for baby stuff. Even if you’re up to your armpits in trendy totes, inevitably you’ll want to stack up on diaper luggage as bubba grows. One fantastic design that also makes a great baby shower gift is this handy Mod bag that comes pre-packed with everything you need for baby’s first year. It includes a bottle, changing pad, travel wipes, pacifier, sun hat, change of clothes…basically anything you could think of (and plenty you might forget). At $99 the Mod bag’s not cheap but it’s worth it for the peace of mind knowing you can just grab it and go. Plus, it looks fabulous. Go Mod, baby, at In Style Moms.

Belly-hugging good

2007-08-03T18:35:00.000+01:00

The week of August 1-7 marks World Breastfeeding Week, a global campaign to promote the benefits of breast milk as nothing short of the elixir of life for babies everywhere. This year more than 20,000 lactating mamas gathered in more than 400 sites in the Philippines to create the first Guinness World Record on Simultaneous Breastfeeding in Multiple Sites. The action group Children for Breastfeeding is trying to create another world record by getting mums together for a synchronised global boob feast. If you're not quite ready to make history, you can still support the cause simply by continuing to nurse your little one or make a statement by breastfeeding in a public place.

If you're still a little shy about feeding al fresco, there's a range of clothing and accessories that allow you to be more discreet. One fab product for milky mamas is The Belly Hugger, a stretchy piece of fabric that slides over to cover your belly when you lift your top to nurse. This spandex/cotton tube can be worn with your regular clothing and saves on the need to buy an elaborate new nursing wardrobe. The Belly Hugger keeps your post-partum tummy hidden and it can even be worn comfortably by expecting mothers to fill the gap between pre-pregnancy shirts and unbuttoned trousers. Pick one up at Tender Cargo.

Wedding bellies

2007-07-18T12:10:00.000+01:00

Sales, dontcha just love em? Yesterday I managed to snap up two lovely dresses under 50 quid for a wedding at the weekend, one from Ghost and the other by Fever at Oliver Bonas. It certainly beats the three-day marathon shop I did last year looking for wedding outfits that would allow me to breastfeed His Cheekiness with some discretion.

Brand new mamas getting ready for the nuptial season should check out Isabella Oliver maternity wear. For bellied belles or babes with babies, this ruffled raspberry number (also available in black or plum) should have heads turning without taking all eyes off the bride. Wrap dresses are universally flattering, grow with your shape and accentuate your cleavage without looking tacky.

Rock 'n' stomp

2007-07-14T14:33:00.000+01:00

We've just returned from the south of France to find that the English summer is still a washout. But it's festival season and neither hail nor high water will keep party happy parents from having fun in the great outdoors. I just read this great piece about a mum who took her five-month-old to Glastonbury and lived to tell the tale (and get dissed by killjoys on the comment board).

We're keeping things low-key and heading to the free RISE anti-racism fiesta at London's Finsbury Park. Hopefully the heavens will smile on us but I'll pack trainers along with flip-flops just in case. What I really want is a pair of these Mommy and Me Tossed Skull rainboots by Diane's Little Lambs so Mr. Cheeks and mama can feel a little bit rock 'n' roll (and represent daddy's favourite motif). DLL Rainwear do a fab range of matching mama and toddler rainboots - or wellies as we Brits call them - that will appeal to every mood from princess to pirate. Yo ho ho.

Crocs rocks your socks off

2007-06-25T17:30:00.000+01:00

If you shop around at popular maternity sites, you'll find very few pay attention to footwear. It's almost as if pregnant feet - exhausted, bloated, and usually invisible to their owners after the second trimester - are either too hard to dress or too hideous to contemplate. So thank Crocs for bringing out a shoe that's not only bang on trend but comfy to boot (excuse the pun).

The brand new Sassari from Crocs is a retro-style wedge that comes in hot two-tone combinations. With a footbed that moulds to create a custom fit and circulation nubs to massage and stimulate blood flow, these shoes couldn't be kinder to expectant feet. As we've said, good mama footwear is hard to come by so it may be worth splashing out on two or three Sassari in different colours. Or if you've got the Crocs bug, you might want to check out their Mary Janes. They're selling fast at Due Maternity, so step on it.

Divas and babes

2007-06-18T14:54:00.000+01:00

We got the lowdown on Divas n Babes, an online boutique for 'haute mamas' and their offspring via our friends at Dynamic Metro Moms. Launched by a mother who got tired of trapping her inner diva in oversized sweats, this fashion line features everything from snappy t-shirts for new mothers, to slings for babywearing fans and even coordinated outfits for parents and sprogs. Breastfeeding mums will love the 'Bosom buddies' set or the 'Drinks on me' nursing bra tank top, while glamma mamas will dig the 'High fashion, high maintenance, highchair' logo. But the t-shirt that simply states 'I am at work!' is set to become an instant classic. It speaks for all of us who recognise that, whether or not she has a day job, every mother has a full-time occupation and a lifetime vocation.

Bellyssima!

2007-06-06T10:52:00.000+01:00

If you want to preserve an image of your pregnant self, and be pampered into the bargain, you'll be pleased to hear about a brand new treatment from Belly Vita, a Chicago-based product line dedicated to maternal luxury. The Belly Imprint Spa Treatment and Sculpting Kit is the only patent-pending and scientifically tested belly sculpture designed to capture your bump and nourish your body simultaneously. You start with a soothing aromatherapy oil massaged into your belly followed by a soft fabric immersed in sculpting powder and water being moulded onto your torso while you relax.

It takes 15-20 minutes to set and the finished masterpiece (or mistresspiece?) can be decorated and displayed in the nursery or elsewhere in the home. It's almost enough to make up for that beached whale feeling of the final trimester. Experience the Belly Imprint at one of several spas nationwide (US only) or order online and treat yourself at home.

Bringing sexy back

2007-05-26T19:09:00.000+01:00

If you're heavily pregnant or newly with sprog, you're probably feeling about as sexy as a stuffed turkey. Have no fear, help is at hand from those canny souls at Agent Provocateur. By popular demand, they've introduced a line of luscious maternity and postnatal lingerie and no, that's no longer an oxymoron. The range includes sleek under-the-bump knickers in four colours and sizes that can be worn throughout pregnancy and beyond.

Bring out your inner wild cat in their soft-cup leopard print front-fastening maternity/nursing bra that pushes you up and out, and still allows you to breastfeed with ease. And la piece de resistance is this elasticated waist-cinching brief that's designed to help you regain your shape by applying gentle pressure while creating a flattering silhouette. It comes with detachable suspender straps for that 'woah mama' factor and is only available in sizzling burlesque-style black and red. Dita von Teese, eat your heart out.

Bright Eyes

2007-05-21T13:39:00.000+01:00

I always used to wonder why those teen mums on shows like Ricki Lake or Jerry Springer looked 20 years older. Until I became a mother myself and experienced the shock of rapid overnight aging. While beauty products for new mamas emphasise stomachs and stretch marks, what bothers most of us are those lines and shadows around our eyes caused by months (and probably years ahead) of sleep deprivation.

So be thankful for this Belli L.A.B. (Life After Baby) Eye Brightening Cream which promises to refresh and rejuvenate the delicate eye area. It contains Vitamin K to enhance circulation and reduce dark circles and Soybean protein to improve hydration. Don't expect any miracle cream to erase the evidence of nighttime waking. But if you enjoy slathering lotions and potions on your body, it can't hurt to show your eyes some extra love too. Visit Belli Cosmetics for more skincare treats for mums and mums-to-be.

Boobs on trial

2007-05-16T13:21:00.000+01:00

As I’m now weaning my 15-month-old, I was struck by recent pap shots of brand new mama Maggie Gyllenhaal breastfeeding her 7-month-old. I was amazed once again at just how intrusive the paparazzi can be but even more stunned by the negative feedback. Maybe it shouldn't surprise me after Janet Jackson's Nipplegate that the sight of even part of a woman's bare breast should lead to public hysteria. Some object to her doing it in the open, others insist she should have covered up more. But stroll through any national gallery and you'll see nursing mothers from peasants to the Madonna proudly displayed as art.

If you've ever been out with a hungry breastfeeding baby, you'll realise that discretion is soon tossed to the wind and instinct kicks in. Some new mothers rely on specially designed nursing covers, tops with slits for easy access or even makeshift shawls. But show me a baby happy with wearing a blanket on his head and I'll show you an offspring of Michael Jackson (hey, two Jackson family references in one boobalicious post!) Personally I preferred loose tops I could lift up easily so baby could nurse without any fuss. Most passersby thought we were just cuddling and if I got the occasional funny look I would either focus on my baby or glare right back. After all, it’s rude to stare at people eating no matter how tiny they are.

Photo source: Celebrity Baby Blog

Scent of a baby

2007-05-12T18:28:00.000+01:00

Pregnancy not only wreaks havoc on your digestive system, it can enhance your sense of smell to an uncomfortable degree. Even the breeziest fragrance can become overpowering. If you're a preggers perfume junkie after something that won't irritate your nose or your increasingly sensitive skin, check out Philosophy's Baby Grace fragrance. This clean and mild perfume combines talc and lotion notes to evoke fresh baby skin - probably nature's most delicious scent. So along with helping restore your sense of equilibrium, Baby Grace will act as a yummy teaser for your tot-in-waiting. It's also great for new mothers or indeed any woman who needs a little extra nurturing. Find it at John Lewis (UK) or visit the Philosophy web site.

Updates - Mamalingual on hold

2007-05-08T14:32:00.000+01:00

Our apologies for the unannounced and unexpectedly long hiatus, but we're back and ready to pick up where we left off. The main news is that we'll no longer be publishing our Mamalingual Dictionary entries at this site, since there's a conflict of interest with another of our projects.

However we will continue with our other upcoming and soon to be regular features including Mama Says (soundbites from the mama blogs), Mama Does (mini-profiles of mothers making smart moves) and MotherFAQAs (frequently asked and answered questions by mothers, for mothers).

We'll also keep bringing you useful tips, product buzz, news and gossip and other general fluff for the nappy-brained. And remember to contact us with ideas, advice or anything you want to get off your chest.

Walk the Earth

2007-04-10T15:45:00.000+01:00

Our feet are often the most neglected parts of our bodies, and pregnant feet suffer most of all. When you're pregnant, a combination of weight gain, changing shape and hormonal fluctuations knocks your centre of gravity and causes numerous problems including sore, swollen feet. Tracking down a good pair of maternity shoes can seem like a tall order, especially as most funky maternity lines don't carry footwear.

For both expecting and new mothers who don't want to sacrifice style for comfort, we recommend these Dazzle Metallic Bronze sandals by Earth. The ultralightweight sandals offer a plush foot bed that conforms to the shape of the foot, comfy mid-arch support and a dura-sole design that propels the foot forward in a natural walking motion. Earth shoes are created with Negative Heel Technology - a fancy scientific term meaning they reduce lower heel pressure to promote better posture and align your body correctly. All Earth shoes are approved by the American Medical Podiatric Association as well as celebs like Gwyneth Paltrow and Jennie Garth. So you can put your best foot forward while rocking this season's hot metallic trend. Available in US and Europe.

Mamalingual Dictionary: Birth Plot

2007-04-10T14:15:00.000+01:00

Birth plot (noun) 1. a conspiracy between healthcare professionals, your baby and divine intervention to sabotage your birth plan (origin: BNM 2007)

Sometime in the weeks leading up to B-day, you’ll be advised to write a birth plan. It’s a useful tool to figure out what your expectations are and to discuss with your birth partner and medical team. A typical birth plan should include details of whether you want to use pain relief, if you want to be able to move around during labour, what props you might like to use (e.g. birthing pool), if you have objections to assisted delivery (e.g. forceps or episiotomy) and who you would like to be present at the birth.

Writing my birth plan gave me a sense of control and made me feel more prepared. But of course only about 60 percent of the delivery went according to what I’d written. It was only afterwards that I could laugh about having three medical students involved in my labour and birth when I’d specifically noted that none should be present. At some point, you have to toss preconceptions to the wind and just be in the moment. Here’s our five-point guide for writing a birth plan:

1. Do your research – the more you read, the more prepared you’ll be
2. Be flexible – each birth is different so expect the unexpected
3. Listen to your body – if she's crying out for pain relief, allow it!
4. Trust the professionals – they've done this hundreds of times before
5. Focus on what matters – getting baby out by any safe means necessary

Check out this birth plan calculator at Babycenter.

Pic source: American Pregnancy Association

Whose embryo is it?

2007-04-10T13:49:00.000+01:00

A woman left infertile after cancer treatment is awaiting a final ruling today from the European Court in Strasbourg as to whether she can use frozen embryos fertilised by her former partner. Her ex says he doesn’t want the burden of being a father to children he will not bring up.

This is a tough one as I can see the arguments on both sides although I’m more inclined to side with the woman. My heart bleeds for her if the court denies her appeal. After all, this is her last chance to bear a child but the dad can have other children with other partners if he chooses.

I can’t help but think of the millions of women worldwide who have the legal right to choose whether to carry a pregnancy to term or to have an abortion, even without the potential father’s knowledge or consent. I guess when the embryos have been created outside the womb it’s no longer a question of ‘her body, her choice’. Tricky issue. Read the full story here.

Buckling up

2007-04-05T14:22:00.000+01:00

During my first pregnancy I basically lived in my jeans, simply leaving button after button undone as the months went by until it became indecent and I switched to track pants. For my next pregnancy, I plan to shop early for funky maternity jeans or invest in some b-buckles.

These bad boys simply loop and snap onto your jeans to expand with your growing belly. So you can wear your favourite designer pair through pregnancy and into the 4th trimester or however long it takes to lose the baby weight. The b-buckles come in two styles, rock star (white) and rose tattoo (black and red) and ranging in size from zero to 12 (UK size 16) they're hot with celebs like Marcia Cross, Gwen Stefani and Tori Spelling. Snap some up at In Style Moms for only $21.50.

Mamalingual Dictionary: Highchair Five

2007-04-05T12:43:00.000+01:00

Highchair Five (noun). 1. the five pounds or more weight gain caused by polishing off your baby's leftovers (origin: BNM 2007)

There are countless guides for parents with toddlers who are picky eaters. But few mention one of the side effects of having a fussy feeder: mum often feels inclined to finish off what her baby hasn’t started. Maybe it’s just me, but I can’t bear to see food go to waste. And my hips are paying the price.

Here are my top 10 tips to combat the Highchair Five (or in my case, Highchair Fifteen):-

1. Offer smaller portions – most toddlers eat like birds, not vultures.
2. Share family meals – having your own plate will stop you eyeing baby's.
3. Chew like a baby – savour(or in his case spit) every mouthful and don't stuff.
4. Serve healthier options – swap oven chips for carrot sticks.
5. Add less salt – it's better for baby and less appetising for you.
6. Graze with your toddler – switch huge dinners for 5 to 6 mini-meals a day.
7. Eat his crusts – wholewheat crusts are packed with goodness.
8. Do some strollercise – walk off the baby fat.
9. Have a hot drink – a cup of lemon tea is fat free and keeps your mouth busy.
10. Throw leftovers away – it’s really that simple.

We realise that tip 10 is guilt-inducing for some. But eating every last morsel won’t do anything for starving kids in Africa. In fact, think of your greedy gut as an insult to starving kids everywhere. Toss those scraps.

Pic via Tiny Tums

Mamalingual Dictionary: Daddyproofing

2007-04-04T15:20:00.000+01:00

Daddyproofing (verb) 1. a new mother taking sometimes extreme measures to ensure her child is safe and secure while in his daddy's care (origin BNM 2007)

Hands up: have you ever watched your baby daddy with your joint progeny and thought ‘what the hell is he doing to my precious child?’ Do you sometimes shudder to imagine what they get up to when you’re not around? Papa may be the Shiniest of New Dads, having attended every antenatal class and now handling diaper duty and night shifts without batting an eyelid. And yet the first time you leave baby alone in his care you might be fighting the urge to put safety locks on your pride and joy.

The daddy of all dads Dr. Sears explains in this CNN article how fathers have their own parenting styles which are meant to complement (sometimes improve on) our own. But even the most laidback mama (or stay-at-home-dad) is a potential micromanager when it comes to her favourite project. We’re so caught up in the personal responsibility/power trip of being primary caregivers that it can be hard for us to let go and let daddy do his thing. In the early days watching my husband casually lobbing Mr. Cheeks into the air, or even now when he gives him Pringles for breakfast, my daddyproofing instinct kicks in. Stop! I want to yell. You'll destroy everything I've worked for! But instead I get a grip, count to ten, inhale and exhale. Daddy and baby are doing just fine. And mama’s taking a breather.

Pic via Canadian Family

Scary Spice is a Brand New Mama

2007-04-04T00:49:00.000+01:00

Flowers and pink balloons go out to Mel B a.k.a Scary Spice of former UK girl band Spice Girls who delivered a 5 lb. 4 oz. baby girl in Los Angeles at 12.11 a.m. on April 3. Her 7-year-old daughter Phoenix Chi and mother were present at the birth. Notably absent was Mel B’s ex and rumoured father Eddie Murphy. The Norbit star (ouch) publicly disputed the paternity claim in a TV interview last year. When asked if he and Melanie were excited about the baby, he replied, "You're being presumptuous, because we're not together anymore. And I don't know whose child that is, until it comes out and has a blood test. You shouldn't jump to conclusions, sir." Chivalrous.

Eddie is currently dating music producer Babyface’s ex-wife Tracey Edmonds. He also already has five children with freakily slender ex-wife Nicole. We’ll be keeping a look out for any early photos of the baby as experts suggest newborns are genetically predisposed to bear a striking resemblance to their fathers (supposedly to ensure they stick around). Interesting factoid: the baby was born on Eddie’s 46th birthday.

Source: Celebrity Baby Blog

Mamalingual Dictionary: Kegel Knievel

2007-04-03T23:36:00.000+01:00

Kegel Knievel (noun) 1. a woman who rides her pelvic floor muscles like a motorcycle stunt professional (origin: Brand New Mama 2007)

Even if you've never read Cosmopolitan magazine or tried to hold back your pee when you're bursting, you cannot make it through pregnancy without discovering the joy of Kegel exercises. And rightly so. The general wear and tear on the muscles attached to your pelvis caused by carrying and releasing a baby can lead to untold future problems from urinary incontinence to uterine prolapse. Like any major muscle group, the pelvic floor muscles can be strengthened and toned through a series of repetitive contractions. By learning to isolate the right muscles and doing regular practice, you'll soon be flexing like a pro. As this Babycenter article explains, becoming a Kegel Knievel should improve circulation, help speed healing after childbirth and prevent unwanted leaks. And both you and your partner will enjoy the fringe benefits.

Evel Knievel photo via Evel 1

Becoming Mamalingual

2007-04-02T15:17:00.000+01:00

Attached parenting. Baby whispering. Lactivists. Perineal massage. New motherhood is a country with a language all its own. Baby manuals, parenting mags and even gossip rags are dotted with baby-centric terms that have become part of the lexicon e.g. mannies (male nannies as popularised by Britney Spears), babymooning (the honeymoon period with your newborn), glammas (glamorous grandmas) and more. The Macmillan Dictionary webzine has a fun article on new words and parenting called Babytalk.

Brand New Mama is creating our very own Mamalingual* Dictionary to help new parents navigate this strange terrain. Every week we will be updating our dictionary with words and phrases that we have coined or adapted. This is a collaborative project so contact us if you’d like to add or share your own made-up mama speak (and earn a creative credit in the Mamalingual dictionary). Let the mum-bo jumbo* begin.

Mamalingual (adj.) 1. fluent in the many languages of motherhood (origin: Brand New Mama 2007)
Mum-bo jumbo (noun) 1. meaningless language or rituals that only make sense to new mothers (origin: BNM 2007)

Pic via The Superficial.com

New Pregnancy Checklist: Baby Yourself

2007-04-02T14:54:00.000+01:00

Nobody may be able to tell you're pregnant yet, but that doesn't mean you're not feeling the pressure. Growing a baby is exhausting work from the outset and the first 12 weeks leaves most women feeling drained. One of the most important things you can do is to take regular, relaxing breaks to keep both mind and body on an even keel.

Indulge in a Pregnancy Pampering Kit from Earth Mama Angel Baby that includes morning wellness tea and a bottom balm to counter any haemorrhoids-in-waiting. Mama Mio offers sensuous massage oils and a list of spas that provide their deluxe Mama's Touch treatments. Bumping Brits can splash out on Nurturer's personal services including anything from biking waxing to household maintenance. If you're in New York, don't miss out on the brand new Peppermint Reflexology technique at Maternal Massage and More.

Photo via Maternal Massage and More

New Pregnancy Checklist: Don't Blow It

2007-04-02T14:37:00.000+01:00

Before you blow your budget shopping for yourself or your impending, take stock of your finances. The average cost of raising a child today is around one trillion dollars (cue Dr. Evil laugh and pinkie in mouth). Seriously though, once you're up to your neck in nappies and formula, you may regret frittering away your savings on non-essentials.

If money's a touchy subject, print out this family budget planner from Pregnancy Weekly and sit down with your partner to sort things out like grown-ups. BabyCenter has a fantastic range of resources ranging from a cost of a child calculator to tips for bargain hunters. For UK readers, NetMums will guide you through the maze of maternity pay, tax credits and Child Trust Fund accounts.

Photo via BabyCenter

New Pregnancy Checklist: Shop til u Pop

2007-04-02T14:00:00.000+01:00

It's too early to splash out on baby gear, but it's never too soon to do a little window shopping for yourself. Gone are the days when mou-mous and man-shirts were the only options for a swelly Betty. Babealicious stars like Angelina Jolie, Gwen Stefani and Madonna have turned bumps into a high fashion accessory. Doing your style research early is the yummy mummy's trick to preparing for the curves ahead.

First rule: while your changing body's a great excuse to experiment, don't suddenly try to dress like someone you're not. Remember, comfort is key. If you're looking for functional but style-conscious clothes, pop into 1 in the Oven. Celeb haunt ProMom Couture does sassy tees that make a statement. Destination Maternity is a great one-stop shop for a range of figure-flattering lines. Isabella Oliver offers sleek, designer fashion for the metropolitan mama. And Crave Maternity has a wide collection of everything from smarts like this sexy wrap dress to nighties to see you through delivery and beyond.

New Pregnancy Checklist: Dining a Deux

2007-04-02T13:54:00.000+01:00

Let’s clear one thing up. The phrase ‘eating for two’ doesn’t mean scoffing down double portions. After all, even at birth your baby weighs less than a 10th of your poundage. In fact you only need an extra 200-250 calories daily and that’s not until the last trimester. Think quality not quantity, especially in the first trimester when cravings abound and the sights/smells of even your favourite foods could give your belly the heave-ho.

The UK Food Standards Agency has a guide to eating well whether you're trying to conceive or heading for the labour ward. At Pregnancy Today, you'll find a list of foods to avoid when you're with sprout. If that makes for depressing reading, cheer yourself up with a copy of the Healthy Pregnancy Cookbook. It offers more than 100 safe, tasty and satisfying recipes for the mama-to-be.

New Pregnancy Checklist: Burn, Baby, Burn

2007-03-31T18:25:00.000+01:00

You feel sicker than a dog and lazier than a llama. The last thing you want to do is exercise. Surely pregnancy's the perfect excuse to slouch around and anyway, won't all that jiggling hurt the foetus? Wrong on both counts. As this Mayo Clinic article explains, staying active helps to ease a lot of the aches and pains that come with pregnancy, aids with labour and delivery and speeds up recovery. Just make sure you get the all clear from your doctor and work at a natural pace. Don't suddenly start trying to run marathons if reaching for the remote makes you break a sweat.

Start easy by registering with BabyFit for a free personalised exercise and nutrition plan or join Blooming Fit for a small fee. Invest in a good maternity sports bra and clothes that appreciate your shape. Fit Maternity has a great range of sportswear to kick you and your bump into gear.

New Pregnancy Checklist: Shoot Yourself

2007-03-31T16:17:00.000+01:00

There's no better time to own a camera than when you're expecting a baby. Apart from the crazy photographer/stalker (or mamarazzi) you'll become once your bubba's born, it's a great idea to start taking photos of yourself right from conception. Even though nothing's showing yet, your body will never look exactly the same and there's still something deeply emotional about the sight of your flattish belly with its secret life inside.

You can keep a paper and photo journal tracking your body's changes - not just the size of your belly but your blooming bustline, hair and nail growth, or newly popped belly button (we call it the umbilical cork). You can even share these photos with loved ones or an intimate circle of millions via a private or public photo blog. Or you can go one step further and hire a professional like UK photographer Tina Bolton to record this journey. It may cost a bit, but the memories are priceless.

New Pregnancy Checklist: Go Surfing

2007-03-31T14:58:00.000+01:00

From the minute I found out I was pregnant, I was online Googling for pregnancy info, advice and trivia. Many hours supposedly working were actually spent calculating my due date, scoping out belly photos, and signing up for programmes to track my pregnancy week by week. I also figured out my baby's horoscope and did the Chinese gender predictor test. This form of 'research' was one of the fun things about a first-time pregnancy. But if you don't have time to waste, here are our top 5 tried and trusted websites that will see you through the next nine months and more:

Babycenter.com - winner of a 2006 Webby award
Pregnancy.org - watch birth videos, share stories and more
Babyworld - top UK site, great forums and fab shopping
Storknet - practical and accessible info
Pregnancy Weekly - all about pregnancy

New Pregnancy Checklist: Show and Tell

2007-03-31T01:22:00.000+01:00

So your pee has produced a thin blue line and you're itching to tell somebody. You could surprise your partner using one of these ideas from Baby Center members. You might want to share with a few close friends and family members with a bold yet understated pregnancy announcement, Hip & Little style. Or perhaps you just want to shout it out from the mountain tops. If you're ready to tell the world even though you've not hit the 12 week mark, try on one of these Shhh...Baby Sleeping t-shirts from Foxy Mama Maternity. It's direct yet discrete, will grow with your figure and the message will last until your baby comes screaming into the world.

New Pregnancy Checklist: Stop Fuming

2007-03-31T00:59:00.000+01:00

It stinks. It kills. It rots your teeth, causes wrinkles and burns a hole in your pocket. And you still can't put it out. But if you won't quit the cancer sticks for yourself, do it for your unborn child. Smoking is linked to a host of problems for the foetus including birth defects, abnormal lung development and stillbirth. Read the March of Dimes foundation's fact sheet for a quick anti-nicotine fix. If that doesn't shake you up, see the pregnancy and smoking section at Why Quit. For direct help in kicking the habit, visit the US Surgeon General's consumer guide.

And don't think that just because you're a non-smoker, you're off the hook. Second-hand smoking can also affect your baby, so try to avoid smoky areas. Persuade those around you - especially your partner or housemate - to stop puffing in your presence. If you're timid of tongue, this slogan t-shirt should get your message across loud and clear.

New Pregnancy Checklist: Get the Bible

2007-03-31T00:15:00.000+01:00

There are tonnes of books out there about the waiting game, but the undisputed bible of first-time pregnancy is What to Expect When You’re Expecting. It’s practical and reassuring advice although, like the Good Book, some may find it a little alarmist in places. I bought this along with Pregnancy for Dummies which appealed to me mainly because of the title. Even if you’ve witnessed pregnancy, birth and the whole shebang up close, there’s something about going bump yourself that makes you feel quite clueless. For a wittier, hipper and downright ruder take on going belly up, check out The Girlfriend’s Guide to Pregnancy by Vicky Iovine.

New Pregnancy Checklist: 10 Things to Do

2007-03-30T15:44:00.000+01:00

There are many thoughts that may run through your head when you find out you're expecting: At last! Oh no, not again! Why me? I'm so blessed. A whole nine months? Hooray, maternity leave! Here comes the fat chick. Who's the daddy? Perhaps none, maybe all of the above.

But there are loads of things you should do, so many in fact that you're probably feeling drained already. Here's our top 10 Things to do when you find out you're pregnant (and you're planning to keep the baby):

1. Quit smoking. Now. Seriously, there's no better reason.
2. Announce it. To the daddy, to a friend, to a doctor. Somebody else has gotta know!
3. Go buy the book. It's the ultimate guide to What to Expect.
4. Eat healthier. It's not just folic acid and Omega 3 supplements.
5. Go window shopping. Being a hot mama takes planning.
6. Bookmark pregnancy sites. You need advice you can trust.
7. Get active. Your baby, and your body, will thank you for it.
8. Budget. The cost of a child is the cost of a lifetime.
9. Start a photo journal. You'll be amazed by your changing body.
10. Take a break. A pregnant body needs rest and lots of pampering. Indulge!

Comment board: What are your Top 10 tips for mamas-in-progress? What was the first thing you did when you found out you were pregnant?

Brand New Mama welcomes you

2007-03-28T16:25:00.000+01:00

Welcome to Brand New Mama, the brand new sister blog to Hype Baby (a blogazine for babies with attitude). Brand New Mama is a resource for new mothers everywhere, helping you along the journey from that twinkle in your eye to that toddler in your face.

We'll be chatting about everything we can think of that relates to pregnancy and early motherhood: whether it's morning sickness or newborn upchuck, cracked nipples or cradle cap. And that's just the fun stuff.

At Brand New Mama you'll find links to the best articles we can find on the web about pregnancy, birth and baby care, no-holds-barred reviews of products you might actually use (and those you'll want to skip), tips, trends and much light relief.

We're not experts and we don't subscribe to any particular parenting method beyond good care, common sense and mother's instinct. Like you, we're mostly making it up as we go along. And loving (almost)every minute of it.

Buckle up. It's gonna be a bumpy ride.

*Photo courtesy of The Baby Website